How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 02.07.2025 08:15
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Does anyone wear see-through clothes to show off underwear?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Living to your full potential is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What I need from you?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
How likely is it to make a living out of being a window cleaner in a Nordic country?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How can reading fiction be turned from escapism into personal growth?
Hangs out with loser friends.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Ask yourself:
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Procrastinates a lot.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
That's it for today.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Does not procrastinate.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.